Men think they are slick, but in fact, they are usually pretty sloppy about covering up their tracks. Trying to figure out if they are cheating is not as difficult as you may think. You just have to think logically and be willing to do a little detective work.
Things will usually get a little physical in relationships during the early days. You have that animalistic passion for each other and you are literally tearing each other up. A little bite or a scratch is just part of the deal during the early days of sex. As time goes on, you get a little more comfortable and lose some of that passion. If it has been a while since you left him with some marks and you see the tiger claws on his back, it wasn't because his buddy scratched his back a little too hard and left a mark, it was because he has been with someone else and he's chasing that initial rush again.
If your boyfriend comes home and smells like perfume once, you can probably let it slide when he tells you that he ran into so-and-so and she gave him a big hug and kiss hello. When it happens time and time again, you better start investigating. By nature, men are just not huggy, feely creatures. If he smells a little sweater than he should, he is wrapping his arms around another creature of comfort and someone is stealing your man away from you!
Is your man spending a lot of extra time at work, but now he has less money than ever. Newsflash, he isn't making money, he is spending it. It is the easiest excuse in the world to claim that you are always getting stuck at work. However, if he truly is getting stuck at work, he should have plenty of extra cash from all that overtime. If he can't show you the pay stub, he isn't working overtime, but he is working someone else.
Showing posts with label Cheating boyfriend. Show all posts
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Thursday, March 19, 2009
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Quick Tips on How to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend
Having to deal with the thought that your boyfriend is cheating on you can be a very stressful situation. It distracts you at work, makes your home life miserable and while you are hoping it is not true, you need to find out or it will ruin you. If you think he is cheating, you have to know how to catch a cheating boyfriend so you can confront him about it and move on with your life.
In this day and age, we use our cell phones for everything. These are also the easiest forms of communication between your man and his new girl. If you are living together, you can 'accidentally' open up his bill and look for a repeating number that is unfamiliar or an abundance of text messages to a new number. Nowadays, you can always do a reverse look up and find out who it is and if it's not a buddy and is a female name, you may have caught him with his hand in the cookie jar.
Is your boyfriend spending a lot of time at work lately, but doesn't have any money? When you have plans and he makes that phone call that he is stuck at work late again and won't be able to make it, you may want to be a caring girlfriend and pick up a sandwich for him and bring it over to the office so he has something to eat. Chances are that overtime that he is putting in is with someone else. When he is not there, you will need an explanation as to where he was. I can guarantee he will get defensive and start an argument.
Speaking of arguments, how many of those have you had lately? Is he storming out of the house and not returning till late. Maybe he comes home and gets right in the shower or smells like he just took one when he gets home. He is trying to remove her scent. Next time he flies out the door, try and follow him to see where he is going, it's probably into the arms of his new squeeze.
You can also play detective if you like. Tell him you are going out of town on business for a few days, but never leave. Get a room at a hotel, rent a car and start watching. If he is cheating, you being out of town is permission to get a little daring and bring the new girl into the house. He will be prancing around with her all weekend with no threat of you catching him. Get some photos if you can. Obviously, this is a drastic measure that may not suit everyone. Often, things like this are best left to a professional.
In this day and age, we use our cell phones for everything. These are also the easiest forms of communication between your man and his new girl. If you are living together, you can 'accidentally' open up his bill and look for a repeating number that is unfamiliar or an abundance of text messages to a new number. Nowadays, you can always do a reverse look up and find out who it is and if it's not a buddy and is a female name, you may have caught him with his hand in the cookie jar.
Is your boyfriend spending a lot of time at work lately, but doesn't have any money? When you have plans and he makes that phone call that he is stuck at work late again and won't be able to make it, you may want to be a caring girlfriend and pick up a sandwich for him and bring it over to the office so he has something to eat. Chances are that overtime that he is putting in is with someone else. When he is not there, you will need an explanation as to where he was. I can guarantee he will get defensive and start an argument.
Speaking of arguments, how many of those have you had lately? Is he storming out of the house and not returning till late. Maybe he comes home and gets right in the shower or smells like he just took one when he gets home. He is trying to remove her scent. Next time he flies out the door, try and follow him to see where he is going, it's probably into the arms of his new squeeze.
You can also play detective if you like. Tell him you are going out of town on business for a few days, but never leave. Get a room at a hotel, rent a car and start watching. If he is cheating, you being out of town is permission to get a little daring and bring the new girl into the house. He will be prancing around with her all weekend with no threat of you catching him. Get some photos if you can. Obviously, this is a drastic measure that may not suit everyone. Often, things like this are best left to a professional.
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