Obviously, you're concerned that your man is cheating – otherwise you wouldn't be reading this. The problem is, do you have enough proof that there's something going on? If anything, you should at least prove to yourself that you've got something to worry about and that it's not a result of an overactive imagination. And that's where a lot of folks have a moral dilemma.
In order to get indisputable proof, you are going to have to dig around for evidence. Some methods used to obtain this evidence may not be entirely ethical. Most often, it will involve snooping around in his personal stuff, looking for receipts, movie stubs, phone numbers, and the list goes on.
Do you have what it takes to snoop through your husband's jacket pockets? Does it bother you that you're snooping through his cell phone looking for phone numbers or text messages? Do you feel that you've betrayed his trust?
These are all questions that you're going to have to come to terms with before you implement any sort of fact-finding mission. One thing that helps a lot of wives deal with this ethical dilemma is the fact that their life is going to get a whole lot worse if they don't find proof of the affair. And to be honest, they've done nothing wrong.
If he is cheating, the last thing you're going to worry about is whether your evidence gathering methods are crossing the line.
If, however, you are allowing your jealousy to get the better of you, and there is no basis for your suspicions, then perhaps snooping through his private things might actually be morally wrong. How do you know when you've crossed the line? The thing is; you don't. You've got to trust your instincts and walk a fine line between jealousy and possessiveness, and the cold hard facts. Not an easy thing to do under the best circumstances.
The good news is that once you do uncover evidence to either prove or disprove your husband's affair, you will at least know the truth. There is a lot to be said for that peace of mind.
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My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago. He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) a Private Investigator who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.
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