If you've been together for a number of years, it's going to be relatively easy to catch your guy cheating. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying this to discount the severity of the situation; but the fact remains that any couple that has been together for a number of years will be able to read each other relatively easy - and that's where the advantage comes in.
I'd venture to guess that if you're in a long-term relationship, you can almost read each other's mind. You know exactly what the person is going to say and you can predict, with uncanny certainty, exactly what your mate will do next. Let's face it, we all have our routines and when you really look at it, human beings are very much creatures of habit.
All this is going to be extremely valuable in the event that your husband starts an affair. Try as he might, there's no way he's going to be able to become a different person. There's going to be very subtle clues that only a spouse could pick up on.
In the beginning, you may start to realize that something's going on because of the "bad vibes" you're getting. While there's nothing in particular you can pinpoint, you just have this uneasy feeling that something is different. Don't be surprised if no one else can pick up on this.
If you suspect your guy is cheating, one of the first things you’re going to want to do is sit down and talk to him. Don't disclose your suspicions just yet, but simply try to have a general conversation around where he's been, what he's been doing, and that sort of thing. Don't ask him in a demanding sort of way, but rather as a simple point of conversation.
It's not going to take long before you definitely know that something is up, or not. Your first clues are going to be in how he answers questions, his facial expressions, and whether his mood changes drastically. Again, you are likely the only one that will be able to pick up on this change in behavior.
If you do detect something is wrong, it's time to start gathering real evidence. Cell phone numbers, receipts, ticket stubs, credit card statements, cell phone bills, are some of the best incriminating evidence you can get.
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