Is he cheating? Countless women have asked themselves, their friends, and loved ones this question. Is my husband cheating? Any woman with suspicions about her husband's fidelity wants to know the answer. Short of asking outright and simply hoping for the truth, getting truthful answers can be hard. That is why, sometimes, you need to try to figure it out for yourself.
Sometimes, women do not want to know. Sometimes they are afraid to find out, not because they cannot deal with the answer but because they do not like the idea of invasive snooping. However, you do not have to go that route and set traps or try to set up your husband. Just be alert. For example, pay attention to the way he behaves with his cell phone. Is he very secretive with it and possessive of it? Has he suddenly password protected it? If you can, see if he will let you make a call and scroll through the numbers.
We live in a technological age. A lot of affairs begin on the computer. Pay attention to the time your husband spends on his. If he tucks himself away in secret and does not let you see him doing certain things, that should set off warning bells.
For that matter, you might want to check out the computer yourself, especially if it is a shared computer. Keep an eye out for either Internet dating sites or an email service he does not normally use.
How does your husband behave? If he is unusually distant with you, that may be a sign. This is especially true if the two of you are not as comfortable with each other as you once were. Of course, if things in the bedroom are going bad as well, that could be a worry.
Last but not least, are you noticing any strange spending habits? Most men slip up by leaving receipts and withdrawal slips lying around. If he cannot explain these or any strange credit card purchases, then the two of you should really sit down and talk.
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